Cold Outreach That Is Not Gross (and Actually Works)
Cold outreach gets a bad name because most of it is spammy and self-centered. Here is how to do it in a way that respects people and gets replies.
Most cold outreach is ignored because it is obviously copy-pasted and all about the sender. Done right — personal, specific, and useful — it is one of the most reliable ways to land early customers.
The principles
- Lead with them, not you. Reference something specific about their work or situation. If the first line could be sent to anyone, it will be ignored by everyone.
- Be relevant. Reach out to people who plausibly have the problem you solve. Targeting beats volume.
- Make a small, clear ask. Not "buy my thing" — a 15-minute conversation, a quick question, or a free helpful resource.
- Be brief. Three to five sentences. Respect their time and your reply rate goes up.
A simple structure
- Line 1: a specific, genuine observation about them.
- Line 2: the problem you suspect they have, framed as a question.
- Line 3: what you do, in one plain sentence.
- Line 4: a tiny ask ("worth a 15-minute call?").
What to avoid
- Walls of text and feature lists
- Fake familiarity ("Hey friend!")
- Pushiness — one polite follow-up is fine; five is harassment
- Making them do work to understand what you want
Volume with quality
Send fewer, better messages. Twenty personalized notes will beat two hundred generic ones on replies and on how you feel sending them. Track who you have contacted and who replied so nobody falls through the cracks. Outreach scripts, follow-up cadences, and the rest of the first-customer playbook are covered step by step in .
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